Justin Baldoni Shockingly Claims He ‘Spoke to Blake Lively’s Dead Dad’ in Leaked Matt Damon Messages
The public saga between Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni has taken another dramatic turn following the release of explosive court documents.
What began as rumors of on-set tension has evolved into a legal battle involving some of Hollywood’s biggest names. New evidence submitted in court reveals private text messages and emails that pull back the curtain on the alleged behavior that caused a rift during the production of It Ends With Us.
Among the most shocking revelations are exchanges involving Matt Damon, his wife Luciana Barroso, and Lively’s husband, Ryan Reynolds. In a document labeled Exhibit 134, the group discusses Baldoni’s alleged comments regarding Lively’s postpartum body. Reynolds detailed a phone call that reportedly took place weeks before filming began.
“Several weeks before shooting, and right after Blake had given birth to our son … this guy called our trainer, Don and asked ‘how much do you think Blake will weigh in two weeks?’” Reynolds wrote in the message dated May 17, 2024. He went on to explain that the trainer did not take the question well. “Don, got very Long Island all of a sudden and Justin backtracked,” Reynolds continued.
According to Reynolds, Baldoni tried to justify the inquiry by citing his own physical limitations. “He said, ‘I’m only asking because I have to carry her in a scene. And I have low bone density’,” the message read. Luciana Barroso responded with immediate outrage, writing, “Sorry but what the actual f****?!? he’s dead.”
The conversation grew even darker as Lively shared another alleged interaction she had with the director. She claimed that Baldoni made bizarre comments about her late father, actor Ernie Lively. “He also told me last year that he speaks to my father often. He hopes I don’t mind,” Lively wrote to the group.
She punctuated the disturbing nature of the claim by adding, “My father died 3 years ago.” This revelation prompted Barroso to label Baldoni a “creep” and suggest that the group “should make a movie about this guy.” The exchange highlights the deep discomfort Lively felt throughout the production process.
Matt Damon, a longtime friend of the couple, offered his support and professional assistance during the exchange. When Lively asked him to review her edit of the film, he was quick to agree. “We’ll give you any help we can,” Damon responded.
He also tried to lighten the mood with a joke about his own production company. “And if this experience hasn’t totally destroyed your soul, Blake, you should come direct your next movie at Artists Equity,” Damon wrote. He added, “We’re kind of like a cult but a really nice one.”
The documents also show that Lively reached out to Ben Affleck for his perspective on the film. In an email to the Oscar winner, she asked him to watch the movie with a “zero pressure ask” for notes. She expressed relief that her inner circle was stepping up to help her navigate the chaotic post-production phase.
“Ryan asked Matt to watch also so I think he’s watching this weekend. Good men showing up. I’m beyond grateful for that,” she wrote to Affleck. She also included a playful nod to his iconic action role. “Also. can you believe Jason Bourne is watching my movie!?!?! I’ll get you an autograph one day. Don’t worry.”
Even Taylor Swift was dragged into the evidence, with documents showing the pop star’s unfiltered reaction to the drama. In a text exchange, Swift reportedly referred to Baldoni as a “bch,” cementing her loyalty to her close friend Lively. These communications are part of a larger lawsuit in which Lively has accused Baldoni of sexual harassment and defamation, claims he has denied.
Blake Lively remains one of the most recognizable actresses working today, having first gained global fame as Serena van der Woodsen in the hit series Gossip Girl. She has since built a successful film career with roles in The Shallows, A Simple Favor, and The Age of Adaline. Beyond acting, she has directed music videos, including Taylor Swift’s I Bet You Think About Me, and is known for her high-profile marriage to Ryan Reynolds.
Justin Baldoni rose to prominence playing Rafael Solano on the satirical telenovela Jane the Virgin. He transitioned into directing with the terminal illness drama Five Feet Apart and the Disney+ film Clouds. He is also the author of the book Man Enough, which explores themes of masculinity, a topic that has become central to the discourse surrounding these allegations.
It Ends With Us is a film adaptation of the colossal bestselling novel by Colleen Hoover. The story follows Lily Bloom, a woman who overcomes a traumatic childhood to embark on a new life in Boston. Her relationship with neurosurgeon Ryle Kincaid, played by Baldoni, takes a dark turn, forcing her to make a difficult choice for her future.
Despite the backstage turmoil, the film was a massive financial success, grossing over $300 million worldwide. Lively is currently working on the sequel to her thriller hit, A Simple Favor 2, where she will reprise her role as Emily Nelson. The outcome of the legal battle with Baldoni remains pending as both sides continue to submit evidence.
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